CLICK BUTTON TO LISTEN The beast that Sheila had become was sight to behold. Pawing Tameka’s thighs apart Sheila plunged her mouth deep into Tameka’s pussy, her tongue now fully extended licking inside then returning it to her mouth just long enough to close her lips to suck and nibble…

Today I finally had the courage to open that drawer. The one I set aside for her to use whenever she would visit. Where she would leave the things that made it feel like home- knowing that each time she came back seeing it just the way she left it,…

CLICK TO LISTEN CLOSE ENOUGH by Neo Blaqness My daddy used to say close only counts in horse shoes and grenades that if you want success in any other way you don’t just pray to be blessed you get off your ass and pay your dues you step up and…

CLICK TO LISTEN I CAN’T by Neo Blaqness I cant fight the ghosts of every man who eva dun you wrong I can’t fill the space of every place where you never felt like you belonged I cant bear the pain of every heart that turned against your own I…

CLICK TO LISTEN NOTE TO SELF by Neo Blaqness Woman looks up from being struck down by the hands of her man through her cries he asks her why are you even here and she replies because there is only one person who hates me more than you then proceeds…

CLICK TO LISTEN BIG LUV © 2011 NeoBlaqness ® SHE She is the other half of three the one who is unafraid that someone else is loving me SHE she is the other half of her the one to whom she leans when troubled things in life occur THEY they…

CLICK TO LISTEN TUMBLING by Neo Blaqness The feeling I had when I woke up today I have had many times before because that’s what it means to find someone you have come to love and adore some might say that it would hurt to hear that you are not…

CLICK BUTTON TO LISTEN Sistah Friend by Neo Blaqness Holdin on that was the easy part it is the letting go that breaks your heart that shakes your faith in all that you are because you believed in a love that didn’t last as long as you thought it should…

CLICK BUTTON TO LISTEN Penis Pets by Neo Blaqness I was walking through the store a few weeks back and there was this tall brutha with naps who could probably have any girl in the hood chasing his dick, but he was with this trailer trash Becky every bit of…

CLICK BUTTON TO LISTEN Sometimes by Neo Blaqness Sometimes I try to understand why Sometimes I just start to cry Sometimes I wish I could hold your hand Sometimes just hearing your name is more than I can stand Sometimes your voice still lives in my head Sometimes your touch…

CLICK BUTTON TO LISTEN Canvas by Neo Blaqness In my mind there is a picture of you in every detail made only of light of every hue no arms no face no legs just grace and I delight in its view each night you colour the skies of my dreams…

CLICK BUTTON TO LISTEN In this final part of our series on Sex, Size, and Intimacy we will talk about “The Other Side of Size”, those things that contribute to sexual satisfaction that many of us have never really thought about.  When it comes to sexual desire, I have observed…

CLICK BUTTON TO LISTEN Sistah Take Your Crown by Neo Blaqness I dun seen your profile frontin like you stuntin with swagg and style talkin bout how you want a nicca who got his own all the while Section 8 payin for your home niccas 1 3 and 5 payin…

CLICK BUTTON TO LISTEN Dr.Blaqness A couple weeks ago one of my girlfriends email me how to get to your page. At first I thought you was a comedy because what she sent me was so funny.  I spent the whole evening laughing at a lot of your stuff.  But…

CLICK BUTTON TO LISTEN   Make no mistake, for most men hearing that two women have agreed to sleep with him at the same time would be like winning the lottery or that Golden Ticket to Willie Wonka’s Chocolate Factory.  I laid there for a moment and began to think…

Writer’s Note: I know that some of my readers often ask how do people close to me deal with the often vivid, candid, and controversial things that I write. Well after Part 2 of this SeriesI got a call from a very close friend and the call was so hilarious…

Sex Size And Satisfaction: PART 2 “The Measure of a Man” -by Neo Blaqness CLICK BUTTON TO LISTEN Now the thing to understand about the male penis is that, just like you have people with an inny and an outty navel, there are inny and outty penises. When a penis…

Sex Size And Satisfaction: PART 1 by Neo Blaqness CLICK BUTTON TO LISTEN I don’t know if they still do it today but back in the day my high school had school spirit week. Each day was a different theme of dress up and as long as you used the…

CLICK BUTTON TO LISTEN Dear Neo I’m  confused right now. My sister husband is a hot ghetto mess and my brother’s baby mamma I swear Tyler Perry must have met her when he made that baby mamma from hell in his latest movie. I’m single and free from all that…

CLICK BUTTON TO LISTEN Hey Neo There are three of us women sitting out at lunch looking at your site on my laptop. We work next to each other in a customer service call center for a cable company.  I consider myself to be open minded. My other girlfriend admit…

CLICK BUTTON TO LISTEN Dear Dr. Blaqness, A friend of mine been on your site for a while and told me maybe I need to write to you. I feel like I am stuck between two men.  If I was to draw a picture of what I wanted my man…

CLICK BUTTON TO LISTEN I LUV ME SUM U by Neo Blaqness gurl I luv me sum u cuz u got that smile my mamma use to have even when she knew all the things I didnt about my dad Its that keep on keepin on kinda swagg to let…

CLICK BUTTON TO LISTEN LEGACY by Neo Blaqness When I look into your eyes whose eyes do I see not your mammas or your daddys but some shade made In a factory When we hooked up on the dance floor I was checkin out your doo I would run my…

In case you ever wondered
do I really still think of you
of course I do

Don’t get it twisted, happiness is not the only reason a lot of people stay together.

I swear if somebody really wants to knock me off, the best way to do it is have a little kid sell me something.

Somethin’s broke
but it ain’t my heart
cuz it’s still beatin

my friends are amazed when i tell them i’ve never been in love before.

Just desserts is hardly
a meal that is sweet
So be careful of candy
your eyes want to eat

Most people have the idea that fatherhood starts at impregnation and then takes a break until the baby is born.

I cannot continue in a one sided relationship. Just wanted to hear from impartial man’s perspective before I made that decision to back off and move on…

Most people go through a middle aged crisis. But I had a middle aged clarity and thought I would share just a few personal epiphanies from it.

nobody
wants responsibility
and nobody
wants to change

I’m talking about these crazy ass middle aged rejects from “Desperate Housewives” and the dumb ass brothas who either have fallen or are falling for that shit, myself included but thank God I have been delivered.

You see the reason it takes a fool to learn that love don’t love nobody is because we keep fooling ourselves into believing the problem with love is everybody but the person we are looking at in the mirror.

Yall the same negros that don’t even admit you are home if it ain’t a white voice you know on the phone or be hiding cousin Ray Ray in the closet lying to the police after he robbed the corner liquor store.

There’s a song moving through my body
inspired by the rhythm of our love

Let me tell you something Mistah
White man
So you say you want a Sistah
to do the damn
Things are not the way
they used to be

It began in my mind
by the touch of your words
Gently breathing on my skin
Caressing me with vibes unheard
Written thoughts from a friend

Christianity and its worship of Jesus Christ is a man made religion and an aberration of what God actually intended for man through the life of Jesus Christ.

Separated from the continuity of their tribal cultures and nations of origin, African slaves were denied education and the sanctity of marriage and family for centuries.

So you are African American and you never heard of Poly? That is really no surprise. The closest thing that most people in the black community can think of when you mention poly is deliberate man-sharing, swinging, or some of the freaky stuff that goes on at frat parties.

They say that spring is the time of year for love. But fall is the time of year I worry the most about my female friends in recovery.

Ladies, again, I can’t speak for every man. And I am not against trimming the hedges or mowing the lawn, but how da hell am I gonna know if the grass is greener if there ain’t no damn grass?

recent scientific studies have uncovered what I think can be called no less than “Gangsta Sperm”

While safe sex can save your life and prevent pregnancy, unprotected sex could keep you from losing your damn mind.

Little White Girls oh where do I begin…

You are more than just a name on my list…

Today we are Washington
Today we are Lincoln
No longer patriots denied
Inheritance to the halls
Built by your hands

I have learned that the battle to be won is not based on the dominant color of one’s skin- which is not a reliable basis of indignation; but rather the unequivocal hue of the heart. A dark soul wears many outer shades.